Is there a way to override the pages header.php file...

[retched]

What I would like to know is there a way to override the pages directory for a template so that I don't have to modify the pages/xxxxx/header.php file directly?

If so where can I place my file?

[DrByte]

No.
You'll need to rename the existing header_php.php file as header_php.ORIGINAL and then put your custom version of the file in that same folder as header_php.php.

[retched]

If another file is placed in a pages /modules/pages directory, in what order will it be loaded?

In general, I'm trying to write a redirect code for the login page but want the page to either redirect to account creation OR account guest checkout (via module).

[DrByte]

Multiple header_php files will be loaded in the order in which the filesystem lists them back to PHP. There is no explicit sort done on them.

Better to use a notifier/observer to hook the notifier point already found in the top of that file, and let the observer do the required redirect instead.