Re: integrate zencart + existing stock system?
This could be done since you are using a MYSQL database, but the problem at the moment is that Zen Cart does not track stock by the product's options, i.e. the sizes. The stock tracking by attribute is coming in v1.4. The new functionality is at least several months away at this time.
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