/includes/modules/your_template/categories_tabs.php would be the place to edit the cat-tabs.
You could add a test inside the while loop to skip the contents unless the cat being processed matched one of the ones you want to display.
PHP Code:
while (!$categories_tab->EOF) {
// currently selected category
if ((int)$cPath == $categories_tab->fields['categories_id']) {
$new_style = 'category-top';
$categories_tab_current = '<span class="category-subs-selected">' . $categories_tab->fields['categories_name'] . '</span>';
} else {
$new_style = 'category-top';
$categories_tab_current = $categories_tab->fields['categories_name'];
}
// create link to top level category
$links_list[] = '<a class="' . $new_style . '" href="' . zen_href_link(FILENAME_DEFAULT, 'cPath=' . (int)$categories_tab->fields['categories_id']) . '">' . $categories_tab_current . '</a> ';
$categories_tab->MoveNext();
}