Orders not showing in admin, blank page going back to cart?

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I have seen this often in the posts. I have run the following tests:

http://digiscrappin4ever.com/ipn_main_handler.php

This one comes back w/error:
Not Found

The requested URL /ipn_main_handler.php was not found on this server.
Additionally, a 404 Not Found error was encountered while trying to use an ErrorDocument to handle the request.

The ipncheck.php

comes back w/error:
IPN TESTING - POSTING to PayPal via: ssl://www.paypal.com:443


Warning: fsockopen() [function.fsockopen]: php_network_getaddresses: getaddrinfo failed: Name or service not known in /home/mysite/ipncheck.php on line 81

Warning: fsockopen() [function.fsockopen]: unable to connect to ssl://www.paypal.com:443 (Unknown error) in /home/mysite/ipncheck.php on line 81
IPN FATAL ERROR :: Could not establish fsockopen.
Host Details = ssl://www.paypal.com:443 (-1283437231)

Trying again without SSL ...


Warning: fsockopen() [function.fsockopen]: php_network_getaddresses: getaddrinfo failed: Name or service not known in /home/mysite/ipncheck.php on line 85

Warning: fsockopen() [function.fsockopen]: unable to connect to www.paypal.com:80 (Unknown error) in /home/mysite/ipncheck.php on line 85
IPN FATAL ERROR :: Could not establish fsockopen.
Host Details = ssl://www.paypal.com:443 (139987964)

Warning: fputs(): supplied argument is not a valid stream resource in /home/mysite/ipncheck.php on line 91

Warning: feof(): supplied argument is not a valid stream resource in /home/mysite/ipncheck.php on line 94

With the last line repeating forever.

I am running version 1.38a
Siteground is my host
I did install the sept 19 patch, made no changes to code after installing the patch.
I tried replacing all paypal files I could find to make sure it was a good install (I hope)
Payments go thru with Paypal just fine. No oredrs show in admin at all and the return does not complete, stops with blank page.
php allow_url_fopen is ON
Port 80 is open, verified this with host.
I have also followed the wiki too
attaching log files zip too
Paypal standard enabled, ipn enabled on paypal site too.


I just don't know where to go from here. I sure hope someone can help me.

Thanks in advance for looking,
Jan