hello this isnt a question more an answere i couldnt find but have solved and thought itd be good for someone who comes across similar problems.
sorry if its spam.

sitemapxml did not work for me i got a 404 error.

so i used an online xml sitemap generator. also didnt index anymore than 1 page.

how to solve this is to not put www infront of your adress in the generators.
ie.
yourdomain(dot)com/
instead of
www(dot)yourdomain(dot)com/

heres a generator.
http://www.xml-sitemaps.com/

EDIT: had to kill links.