Hi,
sorry I'm a bit lost 
This is the code in my tpl_header file.
Code:
<?php
/**
* Common Template - tpl_header.php
*
* this file can be copied to /templates/your_template_dir/pagename<br />
* example: to override the privacy page<br />
* make a directory /templates/my_template/privacy<br />
* copy /templates/templates_defaults/common/tpl_footer.php to /templates/my_template/privacy/tpl_header.php<br />
* to override the global settings and turn off the footer un-comment the following line:<br />
* <br />
* $flag_disable_header = true;<br />
*
* @package templateSystem
* @copyright Copyright 2003-2006 Zen Cart Development Team
* @copyright Portions Copyright 2003 osCommerce
* @license http://www.zen-cart.com/license/2_0.txt GNU Public License V2.0
* @version $Id: tpl_header.php 3392 2006-04-08 15:17:37Z birdbrain $
*/
?>
<?php
// Display all header alerts via messageStack:
if ($messageStack->size('header') > 0) {
echo $messageStack->output('header');
}
if (isset($_GET['error_message']) && zen_not_null($_GET['error_message'])) {
echo htmlspecialchars(urldecode($_GET['error_message']));
}
if (isset($_GET['info_message']) && zen_not_null($_GET['info_message'])) {
echo htmlspecialchars($_GET['info_message']);
} else {
}
?>
<!--bof-header logo and navigation display-->
<?php
if (!isset($flag_disable_header) || !$flag_disable_header) {
?>
<div id="headerWrapper">
<!--bof-navigation display-->
<div id="navMainWrapper">
<div id="navMain">
<ul class="back">
<li><?php echo '<a href="' . HTTP_SERVER . DIR_WS_CATALOG . '">'; ?><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_CATALOG; ?></a></li>
<?php if ($_SESSION['customer_id']) { ?>
<li><a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_LOGOFF, '', 'SSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_LOGOFF; ?></a></li>
<li><a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_ACCOUNT, '', 'SSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_MY_ACCOUNT; ?></a></li>
<?php
} else {
if (STORE_STATUS == '0') {
?>
<li><a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_LOGIN, '', 'SSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_LOGIN; ?></a></li>
<?php } } ?>
<?php if ($_SESSION['cart']->count_contents() != 0) { ?>
<li><a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_SHOPPING_CART, '', 'NONSSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_CART_CONTENTS; ?></a></li>
<li><a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_CHECKOUT_SHIPPING, '', 'SSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_CHECKOUT; ?></a></li>
<?php }?>
<li> <a href="http://www.ampmgraphics.com/affordable-graphic-design.html">About us <span style="color: #666666">|</span> </a></li>
<li> <a href="http://www.ampmgraphics.com/portfolio.html">Portfolio <span style="color: #666666">|</span> </a></li>
<li> <a href="http://www.ampmgraphics.com/testimonials.html">Testimonials <span style="color: #666666">|</span> </a></li>
<li> <a href="http://www.ampmgraphics.com/contact-us.html">Contact us </a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="navMainSearch forward"><?php require(DIR_WS_MODULES . 'sideboxes/search_header.php'); ?></div>
<br class="clearBoth" />
</div>
<!--eof-navigation display-->
<!--bof-branding display-->
<div id="logoWrapper">
<div id="logo"><?php echo '<a href="' . HTTP_SERVER . DIR_WS_CATALOG . '">' . zen_image($template->get_template_dir(HEADER_LOGO_IMAGE, DIR_WS_TEMPLATE, $current_page_base,'images'). '/' . HEADER_LOGO_IMAGE, HEADER_ALT_TEXT) . '</a>'; ?></div>
<div id="taglineWrapper">
<?php
if (HEADER_SALES_TEXT != '') {
?>
<div id="tagline"><?php echo HEADER_SALES_TEXT;?></div>
<?php
}
?>
<?php
if (SHOW_BANNERS_GROUP_SET2 != '' && $banner = zen_banner_exists('dynamic', SHOW_BANNERS_GROUP_SET2)) {
if ($banner->RecordCount() > 0) {
?>
<div id="bannerTwo" class="banners"><?php echo zen_display_banner('static', $banner);?></div>
<?php
}
}
?>
</div>
</div>
<!--eof-branding display-->
<!--eof-header logo and navigation display-->
<!--bof-optional categories tabs navigation display-->
<?php require($template->get_template_dir('tpl_modules_categories_tabs.php',DIR_WS_TEMPLATE, $current_page_base,'templates'). '/tpl_modules_categories_tabs.php'); ?>
<!--eof-optional categories tabs navigation display-->
<!--bof-header ezpage links-->
<?php if (EZPAGES_STATUS_HEADER == '1' or (EZPAGES_STATUS_HEADER == '2' and (strstr(EXCLUDE_ADMIN_IP_FOR_MAINTENANCE, $_SERVER['REMOTE_ADDR'])))) { ?>
<?php require($template->get_template_dir('tpl_ezpages_bar_header.php',DIR_WS_TEMPLATE, $current_page_base,'templates'). '/tpl_ezpages_bar_header.php'); ?>
<?php } ?>
<!--eof-header ezpage links-->
</div>
<?php } ?>
This is the code from the file for the login box (tpl_header code)
Code:
<?php
/**
* Common Template - tpl_header.php
*
* this file can be copied to /templates/your_template_dir/pagename<br />
* example: to override the privacy page<br />
* make a directory /templates/my_template/privacy<br />
* copy /templates/templates_defaults/common/tpl_footer.php to /templates/my_template/privacy/tpl_header.php<br />
* to override the global settings and turn off the footer un-comment the following line:<br />
* <br />
* $flag_disable_header = true;<br />
*
* @package templateSystem
* @copyright Copyright 2003-2006 Zen Cart Development Team
* @copyright Portions Copyright 2003 osCommerce
* @license http://www.zen-cart.com/license/2_0.txt GNU Public License V2.0
* @version $Id: tpl_header.php 3192 2006-03-15 22:37:24Z wilt $
*/
// Display all header alerts via messageStack:
if ($messageStack->size('header') > 0) {
echo $messageStack->output('header');
}
?>
<table class="centershop" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0">
<?php
if (!isset($flag_disable_header) || $flag_disable_header == false) {
?>
<tr><td>
<table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" class="header">
<tr><!-- All HEADER_ definitions in the columns below are defined in includes/languages/english.php //-->
<td valign="middle" height="<?php echo HEADER_LOGO_HEIGHT; ?>" width="<?php echo HEADER_LOGO_WIDTH; ?>">
<?php echo '<a href="' . zen_href_link(FILENAME_DEFAULT) . '">' . zen_image($template->get_template_dir(HEADER_LOGO_IMAGE, DIR_WS_TEMPLATE, $current_page_base,'images'). '/' . HEADER_LOGO_IMAGE, HEADER_ALT_TEXT) . '</a>'; ?>
</td>
<td align="center" valign="top"><br />
<?php
if (HEADER_SALES_TEXT != '') {
echo HEADER_SALES_TEXT;
}
if (SHOW_BANNERS_GROUP_SET2 != '' && $banner = zen_banner_exists('dynamic', SHOW_BANNERS_GROUP_SET2)) {
if ($banner->RecordCount() > 0) {
echo zen_display_banner('static', $banner);
}
}
?>
</td>
</tr>
</table>
<table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" class="headerNavigation">
<tr>
<td align="left" valign="top" class="headerNavigation">
<a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_DEFAULT, '', 'NONSSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_CATALOG; ?></a> |
<?php if (isset($_SESSION['customer_id'])) { ?>
<?php
} else {
if (STORE_STATUS == '0') {
?>
<a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_LOGIN, '', 'SSL'); ?>"></a>
<?php } } ?> </td>
<td align="left" class="headerNavigation"><?php require(DIR_WS_MODULES . 'sideboxes/' . 'login_header.php'); ?></td>
<td align="right" valign="top" class="headerNavigation">
<?php if ($_SESSION['cart']->count_contents() != 0) { ?>
<a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_SHOPPING_CART, '', 'NONSSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_CART_CONTENTS; ?></a> | <a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_CHECKOUT_SHIPPING, '', 'SSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_CHECKOUT; ?>»</a>
<?php }?> </td>
</tr>
</table>
<?php
if (isset($_GET['error_message']) && zen_not_null($_GET['error_message'])) {
?>
<table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2">
<tr class="headerError">
<td class="headerError"><?php echo htmlspecialchars(urldecode($_GET['error_message'])); ?></td>
</tr>
</table>
<?php
}
if (isset($_GET['info_message']) && zen_not_null($_GET['info_message'])) {
?>
<table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2">
<tr class="headerInfo">
<td class="headerInfo"><?php echo htmlspecialchars($_GET['info_message']); ?></td>
</tr>
</table>
<?php
}
?>
<?php
} else {
?>
<tr><td>
<?php
}
?>
<!--bof-optional categories tabs navigation display-->
<?php
if (CATEGORIES_TABS_STATUS == '1') {
require($template->get_template_dir('tpl_modules_categories_tabs.php',DIR_WS_TEMPLATE, $current_page_base,'templates'). '/tpl_modules_categories_tabs.php');
}
?>
<!--eof-optional categories tabs navigation display-->
<!--bof-header ezpage links-->
<?php if (EZPAGES_STATUS_HEADER == '1' or (EZPAGES_STATUS_HEADER == '2' and (strstr(EXCLUDE_ADMIN_IP_FOR_MAINTENANCE, $_SERVER['REMOTE_ADDR'])))) { ?>
<?php require($template->get_template_dir('tpl_ezpages_bar_header.php',DIR_WS_TEMPLATE, $current_page_base,'templates'). '/tpl_ezpages_bar_header.php'); ?>
<?php } ?>
<!--eof-header ezpage links-->
I can't see which bit I need to add where 
Tried a few things but it messed it up more..so I've put it back to how it was which is still not right...
Can anyone let me know which bit of code I need to add into the uploaded header?
Thanks