Well I've fixed part of my problem and I hope you can help me with the other part. My store only has Virtual products so I manually have to change two settings on the store or my customers run into problems checking out. These two settings are:

Product is Virtual: Yes, Skip Shipping Address No, Shipping Address Required (I have to change it from No to Yes)
Always Free Shipping: Yes, Always Free Shipping No, Normal Shipping Rules (Change from No to Yes)

My questions are:

1) is there a way to change the settings to where they are default to yes instead of no
2) is there a mysql code to change all the products in store to this setting or will I need to go in and manually change each product to yes for both settings.