Custom Contact Form Help

[notfarnow]

Hello, I have a custom second contact from in my store. I have it all built but am having problems receiving the emails that are sent and was wondering if you could please take a look and tell me if my files look correct. Also...
1. where do I change the email address that the form sends to?
2. How do I add a confirmation message after the form is sent?

Thanks so much for your help!