never mind :) .. it had nothing to with css ... in the C:\wamp\www\YOURSTORE\includes\languages\english\extra_definitions there is the lines:

define('CURRENT_PAGE_INDICATOR', '  ');
define('NOT_CURRENT_PAGE_INDICATOR', '  '); erase whats in brackets
to look like this ... define ('NOT_CURRENT_PAGE_INDICATOR', '');

maybe i can erase the whole line but i'm new to this so it may come into play later ... as of now works !!