You're right, godaddy won't ("cant") open port 1129 and that i'd have to get another package. and she said there's no workaround.

Godaddy says they use port 80, won't open 1129 and to call back FirstData and explain that to them. GoDaddy said there's a reason why FirstData won't use port 80 but she couldn't tell me why. I'm on the phone with FirstData now, waiting for a rep. I'm just more curious than anything..

Next Step: if it's to change hosts, I will look at the link of Certified Hosts.
What do I look for to make sure I get exactly what I need?
THANK YOU! at least I'm making a little progress :)