ok well... third time's the charm they say...

it`s working now... turned out that there is a bug in my English.php file in my admin folder eventough it was an original... must have badly transfered but it was what made it so that the file Installation Check wouldn`t come up which in turn couldn`t tell me how to set up my .htaccess for my server which in turn made it so that on the store side of things, it worked but didn`t worked at the same time.

thanks for trying to help. truly appreciated.