Can i add an email on the BCC of an email confirmation or order update?? I know a i can copy a email in, but i need to BCC.

Reason

The reason i need to bcc is for a reviews site that needs to be BCCed so they can automatically send review emails to my customers. If I just add them as a copy they do not get the customers name and email address in the headers of the email, which they required for their software to pick up.

any ideas or help?

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