load your site and then view the source.
Right towards the top of this code you will fin reference similar to this:
Code:
<link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="includes/templates/Custom/css/stylesheet.css" />
<link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="includes/templates/Custom/css/stylesheet_css_buttons.css" />
<link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" media="print" href="includes/templates/Custom/css/print_stylesheet.css" />
This indicates in this instance the path to the css files, your shouuld be /includes/templates/kitesite_template/...