OK it does send a message to the submitter but the address it shows is as you say veroniqu@ not my domain DOT com. Where is it getting this adress from as it is not one set up in my control panel. It did not send me a message saying that there was a submitted link awaiting approval.
Rottie
I'm guessing that it is from this entry in your e-mail configuration
Email Address (Displayed to Contact you)
If that is the case then it also send the notification to that address