Re: Is Zen Cart Overkill for us?
Well- it depends on what you mean by stripping down - most of the features you wouldn't want to use are easily turned off via the Admin so that the look can be very simplistic. No graphics are required for a template over - it could be completely controlled by the CSS.
The admin has quite a lot of features and in your case I would recommend the Admin Profile add-on to remove the control access the client wouldn't need.
Zen Cart is wonderfully flexible and should meet your needs with out ever having to touch the code.
With a simple design and complete information from the client you can have her set up and ready to go in a very short time.
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