OK everything is installed, every file is in its correct location, sql patch is installed and sussful.
Its rather simple. If you aren't seeing the option where it should be then everything isn't installed, not every file is in its correct location, or the sql patch didn't install successfully.

Sorry to make a presumption here, but judging by how carelessly you write your messages ("sussful", "hinding") it seems to make sense that you're reading the instructions much the same way. Not trying to be insulting, but also not really in the habit of wasting my time.

Read through it carefully. If you are 100% certain you've done everything, then ok - it won't work for you for some unexplained reason. If its a conflict with another mod you have, then there is nothing that I can do anyway.

Regardless, keep in mind this is a free contribution offered as-is without warranty (actually, I suppose since its free I can give you your money back). It works. It works rather well. Its not perfect and I suppose it won't work for everyone.