Hide Sub-Sub Category and Products

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Hello again,

I have an interesting problem(i think anyway)

what i want to do it hide the send level of sub-categories

so as in pic:
the sidebox would show
shoes and sort me but not the things under it

I want all those to apear in the product box
what i am doing is useing sub-categories as "parent items" them items as specific attribute items that they can purchase

and also hoping to find away so the items only appear if you click their respective sub-cat

...sorry for the poor screenshot