I thought you mentioned a zero quantity product in your last message. While adding products to the Stock With Attributes list so they can be used, if I try to add a product with a zero quantity, and in the section where you give a product a quantity to be displayed in the dropdown, when you look at the site, that product is not in the drop-down list, nor is it displayed as "Out of Stock", it simply is not there.
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