I got your contribution to work on my site (after changing hosts; Thanks kobra!)
But I do have a question. With many link exchange programs they ask you what page your link to their site is.

Well, in my case their link is on http://www.excellentsoaps.com/catalo...ain_page=links
but when I put that page into their reciprocal link checker it always comes up negative. What link should I be putting in?