thegascomp:
youre not actually helping me troubleshoot the ACTUAL issue...
With all due respect, you didn't answer the 2 questions I asked. How do you expect me to help you? There could be critical information in the answers to those questions.
Further, you didn't include information from the "Posting Tips" questions that were on the page when you first submitted this post, nor when replying. Click "Reply" below, and include the answers to those questions in your next post.
Also, there are several related discussions mentioned in the "Similar Threads" area at the bottom of this page, and there's an FAQ article dedicated to the topic in the FAQs area of this site.
Additionally, you're using an older version of Zen Cart. v1.3.9 has some functionality built-in to attempt to detect disconnection problems on hosts who have their servers configured with too low a timeout. So, the next step is to upgrade to determine whether that's sufficient enough for your situation, or whether you need to get your hosting company involved.