khinkel:
ok im a bit a new to this so i apologize for seeming CLUELESS. how can you tell the images are hosted elsewhere and using ssl links? i was actually messing around in config>images right around the time the slowness started to happen. the site worked fine and uploaded immediately for two weeks prior to this. i then thought maybe it was the host but checked a couple of other sites using the same host and they seemed fine (so i ruled out the host...i think). is there anything i can do to the images (if in fact this is the problem) to make the website faster. i cant even get anyone to stay past the first click since it is soooo slow.
By looking at the source code of your page all the product images have link like the following
"https:/ /hostmylingeriesite net/images/101/7109.jpg" note I added the spaces to stop it making a link here
so https is an ssl link (normal is http)
and the site name hostmylingeriesite is different to lingerieandcostumedepot