Firstly, I am sorry if YOU were offended by my comments about your host. My remarks are aimed at them. I take Qdixon's point that there are literally thousands of ways servers can be set up, and different hosts have their "reasons" for certain configurations.
However... your first post on these "problems" appeared in 18 March.
It is now 4th May.
All that time, you have not had a functioning webshop.
So you have had nearly 9 weeks of "down-time".
That means you are 9 weeks "behind schedule". While there is no "tangible standard" for the time a site goes live, to the time it starts taking orders, it may interest you to know that on one occasion a couple of years ago, we STARTED work on a new ZC site at 9am in the morning, and by 3.30pm that afternoon it was getting sales. (It was an urgent job that needed a shop to take advantage of a breaking ad campaign in regional newspapers).
Our current webhost is the result of several tearful experiences (like you are now having), and in this regard we are ruthless. After a while (some 4 years ago now) the instant a host demonstrated the slightest degree of "improper" hosting (for zencart), we moved on.
Time is money in eCommerce. An "inadequate host" is probably the costliest impediment to an eCommerce site.
Since hosting with our current host (and we have a LARGE number of clients on their servers) we have never ever had a single second of down-time. And we've been with them for a while now.
We do 3 to 4 zencart installation every month, and do these manually (even though Softaculous is available), and our "record" for a custom install (with a custom template) is just under 15 minutes. (ie: from zero to working custom website in under 15 minutes.)
9 weeks later, and you're still demonstrating a blind loyalty to a host that is holding you back. That's something I really find difficult to understand.
I am not writing this to "boast" of our "prowess" (we have a lot of experience in ZC, and have been involved in websites since 1993). I am hopefully illustrating to you that if your objective is to start an online business, and make money... you're allowing a supplier to completely dictate whether that happens - or not.
Just change your supplier, that's all...