laurelsstitchery:
I don't see any reason to be rude. I came here asking for help.
The statements previously provided and inquiries asked were not to be taken as rude. None of us are able to see the values that you have in your setup (without being granted access). We are only able to help based on the amount of information provided, preferably with hard facts. (Similar to what was added into the quote of the above message.)
It appeared that the problem had persisted, and being familiar with all things Zen, the question was asked for validation that the suspected cause was not in fact the reason.
Having tagged this thread because I have seen some odd behavior on my own site with regards to some visitors getting unexpectedly timed out, it appeared that the most probable cause was the session.gc_maxlifetime value. Earlier it was stated that effort was taken to verify/set the values, but unfortunately sometimes in troubleshooting an issue changes are made that need to be undone. Whether that specifically is the case here or not, we don't know. At the very least now by confirming the values (and possibly resaving the settings so that they took) it seems your issue has been resolved.
I guess I could go on and on, you have come to the right place to seek help and it is very very rare that there are any personal issues/rudeness. The vast majority of those that offer their free help by openly posting here do so because they are trying to help and can really only do that to the maximum that others try to help them. A good starting point is the general posting guidelines and then to also frame the current situation so that there are no misunderstandings and sufficient info is available to diagnose. Hopefully two things, 1) you don't have any further issues (knock on wood) and 2) that when you do, you'll come back to seek assistance again.
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