Adding links to main header bar

I would like to add links to my main header. I found an example to do this for the "Contact Us" page which worked fine, but I'm having trouble adding additional ones. I do not wish to use EZ pages as it adds an additional row of links. I want the links to appear in the main header bar.
Thanks in advance for any advice.

For standard non Zen Cart Links or static links > In your template copy of tpl_header.php find this and continue with what is in red adjusting to your links

<?php
      } else {
        if (STORE_STATUS == '0') {
?>
    <li><a href="<?php echo zen_href_link(FILENAME_LOGIN, '', 'SSL'); ?>"><?php echo HEADER_TITLE_LOGIN; ?></a></li>
<?php } } ?>
    <li><a href="http://domain_to_your_page.com''>Your_title</a></li> 
    <li><a href="http://domain_to_your_page.com''>Your_title</a></li>

I have a question about this one.

I have done exactly as shown, but on the header it's only showing the every other entry.

So I have forums, gallery, chat, freebies, calendar

On the bar it shows forums, chat, calendar. In order for me to work, I have to do 2 entries for each one.

Is it suppose to work like that?

In your template copy of tpl_header.php

Where can i find this file ??

Thanks

Mobilemick,

All core files for templates can be copied from /includes/templates/template_default

But only the ones that you need to edit

Looked all over in Templates/classic even looked through the language files, still cant find anything to change links in the header :)

Thanks
Mick

Looked all over in Templates/classic
Not 'classic' look here and for tpl_header.php

All core files for templates can be copied from /includes/templates/template_default