After speaking to the godaddy folks again, they said that my site is slow because each page, and item refers back to the domain name.

They said since my site already lives at smartmow.com that links on my website like

Code:
<a href="http://smartmow.com/index.php?main_page=page&amp;id=3&amp;chapter=1">Product Details</a></li> 
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and making it like

Code:
<a href="/index.php?main_page=page&amp;id=3&amp;chapter=1">Product Details</a></li> 
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would make it load faster.

How can I make these modifications?