Hi Maria,
You have somehow read far more into my postings than intended. Can we try afresh?
maria82g:
the very reason i tried prestashop was to diagnose whether the prob was with zencart or server
Although an extreme measure to take, I wasn't criticising you for this. If you had hung around a little longer I/we could have given you plenty of less drastic options to prove/disprove the same point.
maria82g:
before laughing at me or finding this situation so funny you should have tried to think about it at least,
I wasn't laughing at you, or the situation. My feelings on this initially went both ways. I could either have laughed at your plight (as you think I am/was doing), or I was able to 'cry' in sympathy with your plight. If I were going to laugh at you I could have more easily done that simply stating that you did this and gained nothing from it. I probably would also have added an 'LOL' somewhere in my post.
In contrast, I'd seen where you'd come from, I'd seen your current prestashop issue, and even though I had no idea if you would come back here or not, I realised that either way, you would still be needing more help. Although I was/still unable to tell you the exact cause of your problems I gave you the best advice I could based on the observations made throughout this thread. Would I do this if I didn't sympathise with your plight? Does this really seem like the actions of someone that just wants to laugh at you or the problems you are having?
Yes, I CAN see this as a laughable situation if my intent was to put you down in some way, but I have no need or reason to do that.
maria82g:
i do not have to prove my loyalty to zencart ,
Neither do I. Think about this a little. You reported a problem to us Zenners. We gave you what help and advice we could, based on the information provided.
You (apparently) took exception to the advice and installed a different shopping cart.
I observed that you were having a similar problem with PrestasShop.. On reflection, I should have kept that observation to myself, but that would be of no help to you, SO, what did I do? I came back to the ZenCart forum (figuring you'd eventually be back anyway) and proceeded to give you advice on what you need to do to fix you PrestaShop issue.... and I did this in the ZenCart forum.
maria82g:
I am not bound to do so, your post seems extremely sarcastic, ,
Wonderful. I go out of my way to follow through with your issues. I start to provide you with PrestaShop support in a ZenCart forum, and somehow or other, that is being considered sarcastic.
maria82g:
Thank you for that and you are wrong,
If you knew me at all, you would know that I actually love to be wrong. As a general rule, when I'm wrong about something it means good news for someone.
However, I'm also a very cynical person.
maria82g:
I did have response there too,
Although somewhat surprised, I'm pleased to hear it.
This is/was another case where I was trying to spare you a little grief/frustration based on my own experience(s), which has taught me that any form of useful support from the prestashop forums is kinda rare (especially compared to the support found in the ZenCart forums). OK, so I was apparently wrong about this, and they did respond with useful info in less time than I expected. However, I was right in expecting to see you back here. I can only assume you came back simply to criticise me for trying to help you, or, the help you received from the PrestShop folk wasn't quite as helpful as you imply.
maria82g:
my main issue here is to figure out the problem
That is also why I'm here. It is also why I was interested enough in your problem to follow it up even after you'd apparently thrown in the towel with Zen and tried to install another cart, and why I've taken all these facts, put them together and came to the conclusion that is now clear to you... namely...
maria82g:
, since i am clear now it is server problem
maria82g:
"So, where do you go from here? I guess you could ask in the prestashop forums for help (if you haven't already done so) but after a few days of no response I expect that you will end up back here seeking our help again."
No Thanks! I won't come back here "begging" for your help!
Which thesaurus are you using? I've looked at several, and none of them indicate 'seeking' is a synonym for 'begging'.
Besides, no one around here needs to beg for help.. it is often given even without the asking. You didn't ask me to help you solve a PrestaShop install problem, but I gave the best advice I could anyway. No sarcasm involved. No laughing at your plight. These things are both in your mind only.
My comment that you'll probably be back is/was based on experience (PrestaShop support is generally pretty poor) . There was and is no 'emotion' involved in any way shape or form. I simply state the facts as I see/know them. I have no idea who you are (not important). It doesn't bother me if you are having a problem with ZenCart, PrestaShop, OpenCart, OSCmax, Interspite, Magento, or any other shopping cart... To me, it isn't important. What is important to me is that there is a problem/mystery to be solved, and I'd like to help to solve it. I can only do that if you let me/us though.
OK, now that I have (hopefully) shown you that there is nothing 'personal' in any of my replies/comments, and I'm happy to offer support even if not ZenCart related, I will try to emphasis a little more of my personal experience with the various shopping carts. It isn't much of a secret that I've developed code/modules for many different stores. This has given me a bit of 'unique' experience in that I am not only familiar with the benefits/pitfalls of the software itself, it also means that I am a registered/active participant in the support forums for the various carts. This experience has taught me many things, and like most things I've learned, I simply love to share, so here goes.....
ZenCart is without any doubt the best eCommerce system available (in my opinion). If I found/find one better, I'd be using it for our own stores. In itself this is just a minor thing. Of more importance, is the support available (and this is why I was pretty confident that you'd be back). I don't wish this to go to anyones head, but after years of frequenting the support forums for the various carts, I have come to the conclusion that the ZenCart forums are frequented by some of the best coders and developers on the planet. More than that though, not only are they the best, but they are willing to share their skills/knowledge with little to no concern of recompense. This is why there is no need to 'beg' for help. ZenCart and its forums are really special in this regard.
Even though I know these to be facts, I appreciate that at the moment you probably still think I have some ulterior motive, or I'm simply being arrogant, and that you are quite likely to have a kneejerk reaction. This emotional reaction will (again) be to your detriment. There is nothing I can do about this except to plead with you to take personality out of the equation and try to concentrate on the problem(s) at hand. If I have anything to criticism you for, it isn't because you elected to go your own path, it is because you have elected to allow your emotions to drive you down that path.
You may find some (perhaps all) of what I am saying as somehow being offensive (perhaps I don't put enough smilies in my postings? ;) but even if that is the case, the advice I provide is generally pretty sound, and always presented with good intent. You may not like how or what I say, but that is no reason to cause yourself further grief by 'retaliating'.
You may think I have been laughing at you, but the reality is, I feel a little guilty that you probably read more into my reply#10 than you should have, and that I was in someway responsible for you trying the PrestaShop install as a result. No Zenner should need to go to this extreme to 'prove a point', yet I feel that I inadvertently drove you in that direction. :(
I am hoping I haven't just made the same mistake again. (I have no control over how any given posting is going to be perceived by any given person at any given time). You may hate me and/or my 'attitude', I can live with that, but for your own sake, the facts and advise I present are for your own good (and the benefit of others). Please try to keep this in mind when reading my posts. I get no pleasure from seeing people struggling with a problem. My pleasure comes from helping find the solution.
Cheers
Rod